Thursday, February 25, 2010

Simple Things

Simple things in life bring me pleasure, my loving/understanding husband, my beautiful family, our cats, music, roses, sunflowers and my close friends. These are the ones that come to mind instantly.

I am a simple girl, and by simple I do not mean “stupid”. I just want to live a happy life where the little things bring me joy.

Sometimes I cannot always get my words out the way I want them to be heard and people get frustrated or offended. Some people just think I say “dumb” stuff. If you take the time to listen, I will eventually get the words out they way I want them to sound. If you take the time, then I might even add some value.

Tonight I said to my husband that he should read my blog if he really wants to know me. How sad is that. Nevertheless, over the past months I have found the beginnings of my voice again. I have found my voice in writing. Yes, it is not perfect, but it is my voice and with more practise it will get better and finally I will be able to get my words out.

I am not an expert in anything, nor do I claim to be. I am just me, just Ness. I am a wife, mum to our cats, daughter, sister, aunty and friend.


  1. You are not just Ness!

    Ness to me is this beautiful woman who has a heart of gold, you are funny, intelligent, charasmatic, you have made me laugh and cry, giggle and fall in love with you.....yes im crushing on you!

    You have taught me about patience, perseverence and the love of giving.

    You have taught me to be more understanding and you have helped me make decisions. You are organised and bossy, you have told me to get my A into G, without you my wedding would of never of been as fantastic, because you were behind me pushing. Thank you

    I feel honoured to be within your chosen few friends.

    Thank you

  2. I have to make comment about the hubby. Hes clearly not a bloggy online person. It might help if you sat him down and explained it in dumbed down simple words (he is male after all!) how you feel and why.
    Some guys dont seem to have figured out the mind reading thing yet (god only knows why! us females have no problem!) and need the one on one talking to thing.

    Can't say i have ever heard you say dumb stuff, no more than the usual person anyway. You are a lovely awesome person! :)